Boundaries + the Ugly Aftermath...
This post is dedicated to my friend, Paulina. Thank you for the inspiration! Paula + I were discussing how we might just be a wee bit sick and tired of bullies…and how it may be way past the time to reclaim our power over them. You ever call someone out on their bullshit + set a boundary and suddenly they make you out to be the bad person with "bad vibes"? This is actually quite common behavior as more than 2/3 of the population demonstrate narcissistic tendencies + traits (which they usually learn from a parent or guardian who bullied them). Oh, by the way, this all usually comes after the gaslighting and the projections and everything else they randomly, and for no good reason, targeted you for. Anyways, now you're the bad guy...and, why? Because you set a boundary? You said, (in a nutshell), "I do not approve of this behavior, and I do not want this to happen again." And, please know that bullying can be very passive aggress...